What I learned from love and relationships in 2022. — Every man (or partner) eventually shows and tells you who he is — for good or bad. Relationships reveal who we truly are. And my bet is you’ve probably learned a few tough relationship lessons in 2022 if you’re reading this. Maybe you didn’t see the signs. Or maybe you’re…

Part 1 of better failure from an NBA bench rider, investor, and startup founder — 6 Reasons You Need to Fail More Hey, it’s your NBA bench-riding startup founder, investor, and personal life growth Coach Huff. I’ve failed so many times in my personal and professional life I’ve lost count. Whether it’s startups, investing, or building a home with my partner, failure is a great place to start growing.

and why money, fame, and power don’t matter — 1. Take your shot: with the woman that makes you do a double-take. With the thing you feel most nervous to do. Quit the corporate job. Go travel the world. If you feel strongly about it, do it. We should listen to the “hell yeah” moments our gut shouts at us about. 2. Losing isn’t fun. But winning isn’t fun without knowing what losing feels like. You can’t try to take the big shot, or make a life change, or pick up and go because you are scared of losing. Winning takes constant small risks to put yourself out there day after…

And how to stop stinking — 1. You stink because you expect infatuation to keep existing in perpetuity Falling in love is easier than staying in love. Thriving in love is harder than staying in love. When is infatuation fun? In the beginning. How long does it last? Until the day your partner farts under the covers, and you realize you can’t breathe. Those early infatuation days when…

And how it helps you live happier — Are genuinely attractive people better at asking the question, “What do I find attractive in other people?” and living out their answer? Attractiveness is more than looks. Or intelligence. Or how you dress. It’s not an exact science. And it’s not only an art. The 10 Most Beautiful Things Attractive People Practice 1. You manifest attraction by being…

Every Wednesday, you might hit a bump and feel your motivation wane. Do you need a jumpstart? Is your battery running low? Did you run out of espresso? Here’s to your hump day getting better! Don’t stop learning, whether you’re on day one or day 10,000. Motivation for saving and investing: “The way the average…

From a pro athlete and MVP-winning point guard — What Is the World’s Most Important Life Lesson You’ve Ever Learned? My dad said, “If basketball is what you like to do, discover the hardest working person in the room and outwork them every day until you achieve your goals.” This life lesson applies to almost anything in the world. I choose pro basketball as my most meaningful goal in life. I got there because I learned how to work harder and…

#TuesdayMotivation is here. Happiness is hard work. It’s a thought I keep having. Why do I expect to be happy? Did I expect to play professional basketball when I was 14? No, I worked at it super duper hard and eventually did it. And maybe happiness doesn’t always require the exact answer you…